Why does one get intimidated by a Strong-headed women.
“Sixty years hence someone, perhaps a woman, looking back will tell the story of how a new movement arose and brought about a social revolution. Perhaps she will be kinder to my generation and times than I have been, as she will have the benefit of detachment, and a sense of perspective.”~ Renuka Ray.
Multiple instances through history have taught us one thing, that it has never been appreciable and wanted by the other gender to be ruled by a women but also because nothing ever so fondly has ever been written about Razia Sultan, Jind Kaur or Rajkumari Amrit Kaur, the same way it has been written for Muhammad-bin Tughluq, Bhupinder Singh or Jawaharlal Nehru…
Tho, considered senile through ages what is even more diabolic is that nobody has generalised or categorised them with vile slurs demeaning the very gender they have been birthed into, criticised for or vilely anticipated to be demented due to their temperament which has been widely generalised in a stereotypic context for time immemorial!
Has doing well for yourself become the new normal for receiving hate or has becoming successful become the linkage to reoccurring enviousness that is sprouted from resultant negativity embarking on a ransacked journey of animosity and hatred !
My haywire of not entertaining idiocy perhaps has led to a resultant outpour of aggression resulting in hatred and notoriety that I had endured for not settling-in to entertain people for their snide remarks, goggly mentalities and outpouring enviousness to constantly put me down through their actions having an evidently negative effect on my overall growth and development.
However, through it all the best learning that I have had is this, that no matter what anybody says or how anybody slanders you or no matter how many unruly stones they voluntarily and intentionally put in your path, your journey on the road ahead is solely yours and yours alone leading upto your success.
All the long sermons about success and how one only leads the way on the road to success depends on the reliance and upliftment people have given them through the years seems rather irrational to me. My opinion on this logic is straightforward that the world runs on the principle of give-and take, concepts like empathy only arise when you have it in your stride to appreciate and reciprocate the effort that somebody has put in to voluntarily do something for you and you showing your genuineness have reciprocated the same towards them.
The idea of success shouldn’t be garbed by enviousness, trying to put other people down but should rather be celebrated and joyed so as to help people who are lost- navigate a path on their journey of life that could lead them to success.
My Mantra for a while has been to, “LIVE BY EXAMPLE FOR OTHERS AND FACE YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR, TO BE KINDER TO THE YOUNGER VERSION OF YOU, WHO DIDN’T KNOW ANY BETTER THAN YOU ALREADY DO KNOW NOW.”